Sometimes we do not even understand the nature of the gifts and the baggage we carry with us. It is possible that we do not even know that we are carrying gifts and baggage. How does one remain open-minded enough to get an adequate understanding about this? How can we build up relationships without understanding the nature of what we are carrying, something whose nature can change even within the context of the relationship itself?
How can I best use my gifts to relieve other people of the burdens of their baggage? Do I even understand the gifts and the burdens of the others in my relationships properly and adequately? It is still a work in progress.